Also less than half a year of marriage, now very tortuous. Her husband is also good, mainly with her mother down … …
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Her husband was the Idol can no longer buy plans, I often prefer to live outside their rented a cabin, will not be affected by these \”training\”, for example, eat in the evening do not want to clean up, is always the next day, in her home is not.
I married for less than six months, now very tortuous. Her husband is also good, mainly with her mother down, feel like I was very afraid of her, and she let me do what I had to do, there is total pick holes, it\’s annoying! I didn\’t want to do the housework, even washing things before getting married, are MOM help me. Cooking, Cook never does not interfere. Hard to say what will you do, I confessed, see millet gruel, and instant noodles, mixed fruit plate, fried egg.
Now different, her mother often makes me personally Cook, but also to wash dishes, drag command, I think she\’s purpose was to me into a first-class housewives, never take into account the way I feel. I mainly take into account the feelings on the issue, not just as one big family in a piece of quarrels every day! Zhedianer I feel myself very sensible, the mother-in-law is mile, made me very confused, I do not know is she too I also was looked down upon, how can this be? I was the bride, a bit of freedom at all.
Fortunately, just married a month, well to me every day, dinner is also particular about, like what will my appetite. May later change, her keguazi, TV series, but order about I do it do it, bubble tea, while dry-stack well clothes, I was into her private nurse, whether my work tired or not tired, feeling good. Xia puying must be my good temper! Know to make up, so they continue to bully me.
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She was too much after I finished up the kitchen, she also want to check, said bowls not dried, soaked the kitchen cabinets, also long bacteria. Added pot didn\’t wash, also has rice and children on the edge, a parable I spit blood wash pot like a wash at a time regardless of the ears and neck. I know my own work is very rough, and soon, they do not have heart, has been so hard. Many members said that in her husband\’s family for 35 years was busy eating free drink, make suggestions also gives me the opportunity to give her some \”color\” look, I think so, too, can hear when she accused and soft.
Her mother-in-law is arrogance of the kind of person, her with the housework is very careful indeed, everywhere in the House spotless up in good order, cannot always take his merits than other people\’s weaknesses. I active came back to buy some food, not saying much, is not fresh, the meat is also too fat no, lean not fragrant light, I\’m really angry, buy what to eat what is done for you? Why say that long-winded, impact initiative.
Her father-in-law is a talking, they live as dull old couple can accommodate the, I would like to also add zhedianer light, or certainly not in the House today a stability, so pick and choose who can afford. What she did is all right, doing good. I married into their home is bad enough, to her husband that played this, sum his mother sing the same tone, also ordered me to take with her to learn, don\’t be lazy.
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Can I enter college, work is also excellent, well is said to do housework? Is not! Just don\’t want to do now! Why you always make me? If I live alone, and the children in the future, can you not do? Don\’t take me for a loser, don\’t treat me like a servant in the House, when nothing is enough.
I can most things, her mother-in-law and her husband in the living room watching TV, had to drive me to pick up the housework. Sometimes do not consider my body, I have the defects of dysmenorrhea, but that a few days, and always let me do some washing. Think of very sad, I was a Jetset girl at home, mother was young, I feel bad I, thought a husband in conjunction with the mother loved me, love me, who know before marriage married two layers of skin.
Home House is not small, more than 140 square, four-room of two medical, but also inconvenient, uncomfortable, together with her mother in life I can\’t bear. Her husband was the Idol can no longer buy plans, I often prefer to live outside their rented a cabin, will not be affected by these \”training\”, for example, eat in the evening do not want to clean up, is always the next day, in her home is not. She have been really hard to wait! What should I do?
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E-mail good! After reading your tortuous, I began to understand your agitation. Her mother really wanted to let you \”crash\”, and you\’re not willing to accept such \”training\”, contradiction is definitely ready.
Yeah! Less than half a year of marriage, you also are not suited \”housewife\” of life. See, in this transition period, the transitional period, marriage makes you embarrassed! By the mother before around \”Jetset girl\”, up to now my mother-in-law \”private nannies\”, you are really trying to adapt to the new environment, and it has changed to constantly improve themselves. It is difficult to encounter such \”arrogance, and tricky, brutish\” when her mother-in-law, you maintain such a good temper. In this regard, I very much admire!
I believe you are a good daughter-in-law, you yourself said, hard to do the housework, but lazy, just goes not free, in fact, young people have such problems. Mother-in-law initially honeymoon you said you are good, then let you go into the kitchen, I think she is I can see you do not care of the housework, but slowly, the standard was too high, so that you cannot accept, feels she is a lack of respect.
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Of course, after some time, you also found that the mother has many advantages: meticulous, careful, tidy, where these are to be learned, do you live, you have to note in this regard. As for the anger she watches TV, put you up at home, not empathy, or inclusion, perhaps she is really tired. Do a \”housewife\” is not an easy thing is! Family thing is trivial, no better than working a no-show political patronagejob.
Young people do! Have fun. Mature when I grew up, married and have their own family is no longer a little girl. Fortunately, you have a mother, think about it and her husband live separately, he would help, what housework are you personally going to do, not do more tired? To havea! Next need much her mother\’s place, for example, health and children, and raising children.
Wise wives will soothe her mother-in-law, a good[u]relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law[/u]not margin fixed, were to get out of the running. Fine little, learn a little, she is cannot finish my mother-in-law.
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